Feb 22 2010
Dealing with Rejection in Sales (2)
Mission and Value
In our previous post we talked about the fact that Rejection, which is common in many areas of life, is also something to be expected if you work in direct sales companies, are involved in selling by commission only, or are thinking of starting a direct sales business. We highlighted the absolute paramount importance of a salesperson recogizing their personal Mission and Value and that these transcend the Sale or the product they are trying to sell, and that he or she needs to protect his or her self esteem and core beliefs to the point they can even say-at least to themselves”The customer is always wrong” when they feel verbally abused or unjustly criticised.
“The customer is always right” is a mantra drilled in to sales people everywhere but, I think especially in this time of economic uncertainty, Sales Managers and companies need to spend a little more time sympathising with their sales force, and at least giving them the benefit of the doubt when customers lash out-particularly if the salesperson has a good record. Your sales people bring the wealth in and the profits-customers don’t just turn up to deposit money in to the company coffers. Something to remember if you are a Sales Manager and “driven” is your middle name. If you are reading this and feel a tad convicted why not plan this month to go out of you way to reward your Salesforce? Here’s a good site for gift ideas!
I remember when I was starting out in sales-selling insurance. Part of the sales process involved giving out free Accident cover to members of groups that we dealt with. The insurance was only worth a small amount, but human nature being what it is, because it was free it was usually snapped up and led to far greater sales of more useful wide-ranging insurance products for us.
Rejection can come from any source:be prepared
Selling was not easy, you had your highs and lows, and sometimes a low would come out of nowhere to blindside you. I remember one prospect I had booked an appointment with, and his son. It was the son who answered the door and when I enquired if the parent was in was greeted iwth “Dunno-I gis (sic) they will be home soon“. When he asked what my job was and what I was “selling” I mentioned the word “insurance” and the free accident coverage. The teenager took one look at the certificate and then at me and asked what job I did and I said “insurance agent”;he smirked “What kind of job is that?” and left the room in disgust.
He was not able to link this little bit of paper and my visit to any kind of benefit his family might get, nor to any value remuneration-wise or career-wise in the industry that I represented. Statistically a lot of people in the demographic we were targetting did suffer a lot of accidents and very few had insurance-so we provided something very useful.
But on that day I remember leaving the premises feeling discouraged,and asking myself why I was in direct sales and questioning whether it was worth it. All because of one teenager’s comment! Fortunately I managed to shrug off this negative critical comment that “came from nowhere”. I went on to actually be very successful and was recognised a year or so later as a top producer and rewarded with an annual paid holiday to America staying in luxury hotels such as this Cancun Resort. So I was on the beach in Cancun and the teenage boy was still living with his (poor) parents in that same house which had cracks and needed paint. A little later people started losing jobs (see post on Predictions for 2010) but I still had mine.
Overcome negative people with faith
If I had succumbed to rejection and this “put down” (by a teenager at that!) I would not have made many sales, or a living, that year. I could have ended up brooding on his put-down and concluded I really had a lousy job and, therefore, lousy prospects. In many jobs things go wrong, but particularly in sales, a couple of “strike outs” or missed sales can really dent a saleperson’s esteem. Sometimes these mental-spiritual attacks come indirectly, and not from the customer, your boss or obvious sources! To overcome REJECTION in sales you need to have a STICK-WITH-IT personality and FAITH in yourself. You need to LIKE YOURSELF (and I don’t mean egotistically), something that has become real to me of late. I would also add faith in God, because your strengths and abilities and positive thinking can only go so far, despite what the New Age Self Help gurus tell you.
*realise your success in life (especially in working in Direct Sales companies) depends on what you do or don’t do -your actions, and , more importantly, your RE-actions (particularly when criticised)-not on the words and actions of others-what they think of you, your product or even your future success. (Obviously you need to ensure you have done the best sales job possible, but this assumes that, and that you still occasionally face rebuttal and rejection)
*your image of yourself and Personal Faith is paramount.
If you are painfully shy you can break free. It takes determination though. Robert Kiyosaki relates in his books “Rich Dad’s Guide to investing” (see below) and “Cashflow Quadrant” that he deliberately took a job with the Xerox company not because he could sell (he could not) but because he knew from his “Richdad” that Selling was a basic skill you HAVE to acquire if you want to be rich. He knew Xerox had a good training program and so he made himself make those cold calls, learned the ropes, and the rest is history.
If you have trouble with Rejections and Sales objections I recommend you get the resources listed below, and look around for a network marketing company that can train you in sales. Why Network-marketing? Because there is very little risk to you in terms of your outlay, and you can learn a lot. I learned a lot with Amway doing this. When I eventually became a salesman relying on selling by commission only (the examples I have given above and in previous post were all from commission-only sales) it stood me in great stead.
Related reading and resources:
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